Grief is very personal. We all grieve differently and at different times.
I grieved throughout my pregnancy with Griogair, and grieved up until the time he died - and in a different way after he had passed.
During Griogair's negotiations home, we were referred to a local hospice. We met with the hospice team to discuss our son. We later thought it would be better for us to take our son home with a community nursing team. Palliative care is very personal, and we feel that we made the right decision in Griogair coming home with a community nursing team.
Please find Hospice links, links to Sands & other supportive charities.